FAQ
How can therapy help?
When what youre doing to make a difference in your life
doesnt work, working with a competent therapist can
help. The therapy relationship is different from any other
relationship. It is a relationship that is totally focused
on you. It is about your becoming stronger, happier and more
effective. The only things you need to do are show up for
your appointment, be as honest as you can be about whats
happening for you and pay your bill. The therapist will be
focused on listening not to just the facts of your life, but
the patterns, then helping you to see the patterns and then
helping you to change those patterns. Friends and family members
are usually too close to see the patterns or dont feel
comfortable pointing them out.
How
long does it take?
Most people can see some benefit in as little as six to eight
sessions, but for deep and long lasting change, usually six
months to two years of weekly sessions are beneficial.
How
much does it cost?
This is a difficult question to answer, as insurance coverage
varies. My fees are at or below the standard for someone with
my level of experience and training.
How
often should I come?
Initially,
once a week is the best. The early stages of therapy are about
building trust and learning to work together. Intervals of
more than a week usually seem less expensive, but in the long
run are less effective and more expensive as the working phase
of therapy takes longer to get to.
What
is effective and sensible treatment?
Effective and sensible treatment focuses on what works for
you in your particular life situation.